My Girlfriend Threw Away My BlackPink Collection (And My Heart)

 

A man gone viral after he posted his break up story with his girlfriend. This Dcard post tells a  story about a young man who found himself at a crossroads in his relationship The guy is a huge BlackPink fan. He collects all sorts of things from them: autographs, concert tickets, photo cards, even a special lamp he got at a fan event. He keeps them all in a special display case, like a mini-museum dedicated to his favorite girl group. He loves looking at his collection and remembering all the fun times he's had as a fan.

 

One day, his girlfriend threw away all of his stuff! She said she didn't like how messy it looked. She said she has a problem where she gets stressed out by too much stuff. But for him, these things weren't just "stuff." They were memories, little pieces of his love for BlackPink. He was really upset.

He tried to talk to her about it, but she didn't really understand why he was so upset. She just wanted to make up and pretend nothing happened. He was really hurt and felt like she didn't respect his feelings. He even showed her the special signed poster he got at a BlackPink meet-up in 2019, but she still didn't seem to get it.

 

They argued and he kicked her out of their place.  He was so angry!  Later, she came back and tried to apologize.  He tried to explain how important these things were to him, but she still didn't get it.  He even tried to make a deal with her, saying he'd let her keep some of the stuff if she replaced the rest.  But she wouldn't agree.

 

In the end, they broke up. He realized that they just didn't see things the same way.  He learned that it's important to be with someone who understands and respects your passions.

 

Here are some things to think about:

 

- It's important to be with someone who gets you:  If you're with someone who doesn't understand your interests or hobbies, it can be hard to feel happy and connected.  Like, if you're a huge fan of a band and your partner throws away your collection, it can feel like they're throwing away a part of you.

- Communication is key:  Talking about your feelings is important, even when it's hard.  If you don't talk about things, problems can get bigger.  Maybe if the boyfriend had explained to his girlfriend how much BlackPink meant to him, she would have understood.

- It's okay to have different interests:  Just because you and your partner don't like the same things, doesn't mean you can't be happy together.  But it's important to find ways to appreciate each other's interests.  Maybe the girlfriend could have learned more about BlackPink and tried to understand why it was so important to her boyfriend.

This story reminds us that relationships are about understanding and respect.  It's important to find someone who values your passions and who is willing to work through disagreements.  If you're a fan of something, it's okay to be passionate about it, and it's important to find someone who appreciates that.